Dealing With Nerves Before a Booking
Almost everyone is nervous the first time, and often the tenth. A few honest ways to settle them so you can enjoy the evening.
Nerves are normal
Meeting someone new for an intimate evening is not an everyday event, and the ladies know that. They have met plenty of nervous men and they are good at putting people at ease. You do not need to pretend to be more confident than you are.
What actually helps
Book a longer slot so there is no rush. Have a drink, but only one or two. Say up front that you are a little nervous; it is disarming and it hands the lead to her. A massage at the start gives you both something to do while you settle.
What does not help
Too much alcohol, arriving late and flustered, or trying to perform. If your body does not cooperate at first, it happens to plenty of men and no experienced lady will make an issue of it. Relax into her company and the rest usually follows.